Friday, April 5, 2013
Cousins
My kids are so blessed to have such fun cousins on both sides of the family. As I was looking through my Easter photos, I was reminded of this. Prior to giving Justin a black eye (unintentionally, of course), John was so good with the little kids. He noticed the giant pile of eggs in EK's basket and the not so giant pile in Will's. He called Will into another room where he had hidden all the eggs from his own basket for Will to find. What a great kid! Of course, now that he's driving and almost in high school, he would probably be mortified if he knew I was posting all this. Great to see that kids don't lose their sweetness as they grow up, though. Good job, Sar (AKA Summer Fun-killer)!
Shades of Patrick
So happy in his swing! He loves it and thankfully the weather has been ok recently.
Sitting in Will's bookshelf.
Big kid getting ready for bed.
Sitting in Will's bookshelf.
Big kid getting ready for bed.
Thursday, April 4, 2013
Ambition
On the way home from school today, Ellie Kate says, "when I grow up, I'm going to be a princess. And a fairy. A real-life fairy so I can fly around for real. And I'm going to be a mom, and a teacher, and a helper like you when I grow up, mom. And, mom, do you want to be an artist with me when I grow up?"
Me: "Sure, I'll be an artist with you. And wow! You have a lot of choices for what you can be when you grow up! You can be a princess or a fairy or a mom or a teacher or a helper or an artist."
EK: "no, mom, I'm going to be all of them."
I smile. Of course she is.
Me: "Will, what do you want to be when you grow up?"
W: "a football player."
No "ands" from Will.
Insert social commentary here.
This really struck me. Of course, Ellie has a list of things she wants to be and fully thinks she can be them all. She sees it every day. I believe that Will, like most men, will develop and operate in multiple roles. But it is really fascinating to me how this develops. Is it natural for EK to see herself with multiple "jobs"? Will has expressed an interest in being other things when he grows up, but his process involves "ors" not "ands" or are sequential (I'll be a football player, then an author, etc.). I know I'm reading a lot into this small interaction. But I see it in other ways they play. Nature or nurture, I don't know. It is certainly fascinating.
In related news, reading Lean In is on my to-do list. Unfortunately, being a mom, assistant dean, mentor, wife, homeowner, and friend have kept me too busy to do so. Hopefully I can be a reader again soon.
Me: "Sure, I'll be an artist with you. And wow! You have a lot of choices for what you can be when you grow up! You can be a princess or a fairy or a mom or a teacher or a helper or an artist."
EK: "no, mom, I'm going to be all of them."
I smile. Of course she is.
Me: "Will, what do you want to be when you grow up?"
W: "a football player."
No "ands" from Will.
Insert social commentary here.
This really struck me. Of course, Ellie has a list of things she wants to be and fully thinks she can be them all. She sees it every day. I believe that Will, like most men, will develop and operate in multiple roles. But it is really fascinating to me how this develops. Is it natural for EK to see herself with multiple "jobs"? Will has expressed an interest in being other things when he grows up, but his process involves "ors" not "ands" or are sequential (I'll be a football player, then an author, etc.). I know I'm reading a lot into this small interaction. But I see it in other ways they play. Nature or nurture, I don't know. It is certainly fascinating.
In related news, reading Lean In is on my to-do list. Unfortunately, being a mom, assistant dean, mentor, wife, homeowner, and friend have kept me too busy to do so. Hopefully I can be a reader again soon.
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